Sunday, November 09, 2025

Laughter. 😂




 

It feels so good to laugh.  

There is nothing quite like a full, deep and hearty laugh.

When you laugh fully and deeply it is as if your body is dancing with delight from within.  

You've heard of the saying, "Laughter is the best medicine."  I believe it to be true.


Our bodies have an innate ability to heal.  Laughter is one of those ways.

Laughter can:

Reduce stress.  Laughter can reduce various stress hormones like cortisol and epinephrine.  In turn, your body releases any number of "feel good" chemicals in your body such as endorphins, dopamine, and serotonin.  You know, the good stuff.  :)  

Help you become more resilient.  Laughter and humor can provide you with an instantaneous new perspective on things that once seemed dire.  What was once seen as being insurmountable or horrific, is then seen in a more unthreatening light.  (See Portland Frog above.)  

Help you to connect with others.  We feel less alone and isolated when we laugh with others.  There is an unspoken "knowing" that happens between people who laugh together.  Intimacy deepens and connections become stronger.  When we are with people we trust and feel safe with, laughter comes easier and more often.   

Improve your health.  Laughter is a poultice for your body and soul.  By reducing various stress hormones, it enhances your immune system, it helps your heart by increasing blood flow and lowering blood pressure, and it can reduce pain by relaxing your body and releasing endorphins, which are a natural pain killers.

Laughter is cathartic for your mind and body.  It is also a complex physical reaction that moves through your body in glorious and delightful ways.  

Let's journey through the fullness and beauty of laughter as it ripples through your body from beginning to end.  


Precursor.

Believe it or not, there are a slew of neurological and hormonal changes that take place even before you physically laugh.

First, both the left and right sides of your brain get to work trying to make sense of some sort of incongruity or pleasant surprise.  Once the frontal lobe of your brain decides, yes indeed the Portland Frog is funny, it then passes it on to your limbic system.  

From there your body releases a cascade of hormones and neurotransmitters. The "feel good" cocktail mentioned earlier.

Keep in mind there is some chronology here, yet it is more of a complex dance with each one intertwining and lapping with the other.

All of this before the physical act of laughing.  

That comes next . . .


The Laugh.  

Once the stage is set, your brain then lets your body know it's now ok to cut loose.

Up to 15 facial muscles begin to fire, in particular the muscles around your eyes and mouth.  Eyes open wide with delight and your mouth opening into a full grin.

Your lungs begin to work overtime.  Your lungs begin to use deep but erratic breaths.  This helps increase your oxygen intake as well as increasing your lung's capacity.  


Your heart rate and blood pressure increase for a brief moment, pumping more oxygenated blood throughout your body.

The muscles of your diaphragm and abdomen contract and relax often and repeatedly.  Other muscles are used in your body as well, such as the intercostal, pelvic floor, back and shoulder muscles.   Ever notice how you feel a bit sore after a good long laugh?  You are getting a good workout as well!  

If you are laughing really deep and hard, you may begin to have tears in your eyes and you might sweat a bit.  You know you are in deep when this happens.  :)

After your laughter begins to subside, you may still be smiling yet your body is slowly 
beginning to reach a new state of equilibrium and begins to cool down.


The Cool Down.  

Once your laughter has passed, your body begins to unwind in delectable ways.  

Various endorphins and other neurochemicals can linger in your system long after the laughing has ended, contributing to a general feeling of well- being.


The fast and sporadic breathing from earlier subsides, and your breathing returns to its normal pace, perhaps even slower and fuller than before.

Your heart rate and blood pressure begin to drop to regular or even below baseline levels.  

Your muscles begin to relax and unwind.  You may begin to feel more content and relaxed.  

Your whole body may feel more at peace.  This state of being can sometimes last for up to an hour.



Lately I have been relishing how good it feels to laugh.  As this all unfolds in my body, I allow myself to create space for the laughter to be as full as possible and to linger with my laugh as it begins to fade.  So delicious.  

See if you can do the same the next time you find yourself laughing.  Take a moment to relish the complex beauty of laughter as it moves through your body.  

Your body will be forever grateful if you do.  




Saturday, June 21, 2025

Summer Solstice. 🌞

 


Sunflowers (Third Edition.)

by Vincent Van Gogh


Today marks the Summer Solstice.  The longest day of the year.

Summer can be an intense season.  There is much going on.  There is much to do.

This makes sense.  The days are longer, it is warmer, people are more social, there is a great deal of growth, beauty and abundance everywhere.  It can be an uplifting and exciting time.

Yet, at the same time, it can feel a bit frenetic.  Almost overwhelming.

The other day I was taking a walk in my favorite park.  I came to a patch of sun and walked in it for an extended period of time.  After a bit, I began to feel a bit agitated and irritated.  The heat of the sun was beginning to feel a bit too much, a bit overwhelming.  At some point my body was asking me, "It's time to find some shade."

I headed back the way I came and the trail was gently covered in shade.  The moment my body entered this space, my body and mind felt cooler under the dappled light.  I felt more relaxed at ease.  It felt soothing.  

I felt safe. 

Safety not only applies to your physical well being, but to your emotional self as well.

Feeling safe is a full physio-emotional response.

We are hard wired to ascertain if we are safe, or in danger, at any given moment in our lives.  It is a deeply subconscious phenomenon.  This unconscious process is called neuroception.  This can be an on and off again response, as it should be, or become chronic vigilance depending on our respective histories and traumas.

What is often forgotten and overlooked, however, is that we are also hard wired to feel safe.

When we feel safe we can more easily relate with others.  We feel more grounded and calm.  There is a deeper sense of agency, of purpose.  

Our bodies relax, we sleep better, digestion improves, and our breathing is fuller.  A cascade of hormones such as dopamine, serotonin, endorphins, and oxytocin can ripple through our bodies.

When we feel safe, I would argue, we also feel more alive.  When we are in a constant state of fight, flight or freeze the deeper pleasures of feeling alive seem distant, almost lost.

It is very helpful to seek, find or create safety as often as you can in your day to day lives. At first it may seem elusive, but over time, you can hone in on what it feels like to be safe with greater and greater ease.

Find and or create environments that feel nurturing and safe.  Surround yourself with beauty, minimize distractions and make sure your surroundings are familiar and known to you.

We also need to feel safe within our own bodies.  Seek out practices or body work (hint hint. :)) that help soothe your nervous system.  This might be meditation, yoga, martial arts or simply going for a nice long walk.  

Co-regulate with others.  This is absolutely essential.  When we are with others who we love and are loved in return, without fear of ridicule or shame, we can feel an even deeper sense of safety.  Again, we are hard wired for this as much as we are for seeking out danger.  

It is your birthright.

Be creative.  Find that safety which is profoundly and uniquely yours.  

For me, it was finding shade after too much intense sun.  For you, it could be finding sun after being far too cold in the shade.

I wish you a wonderful Summer Solstice, and deep safety.

Thursday, May 22, 2025

Coherence in Chaos.

 

"When a complex system is far from equilibrium, small islands of coherence in a sea of chaos have the capacity to shift the entire system to a higher order."

 - Iya Prigogine, Nobel prize-winning chemist.

 

Hello there.

I hope this message finds you well.

I wanted to write and acknowledge the challenges many of you are facing during these chaotic and uncertain times.

To not reach out and acknowledge this ongoing phenomena was beginning to feel a little like negligence, which is in direct conflict with my ethics as a Rolfer®️.

Some of you are fearful of losing your job, and some of you have already lost your job due to federal spending cuts.

Others are fearful of even traveling the country due to your gender identity.

Many of you simply feel less safe during this time of uncertainty and increased vitriol.

I want you to know that with the work I do, I am ever committed to providing you with a safe and compassionate space to do this most valuable and essential work.

The time and space that we share for an hour plus is sacred.  In many ways it is a temporary autonomous zone to experience and relish a way of being that is antithetical to what is happening on multiple fronts in our political discourse.

Empathy.

Compassion.

Humor.

Kindness.

And maybe most importantly . . .

Embodiment.

From the moment I see you to the moment you leave, I want us to share these qualities of being.

In doing so, we are able to create a space that is a small island of coherence in a sea of chaos.

This co created space is essential, but so is getting body work.

In doing so, there may be less chaos in your soma and psyche. Instead you may find a better sense of ease, balance and peace.  Less anxiety.
Certainly less pain.

We need this more than ever.

When we find this coherence and balance within our bodies, we are better able to navigate the uncertainties of this world.  There is also more capacity to bring this sense of peace to others as well, which most everyone wants on a primal level.

I continuously and consistently tend to myself with deep care as well.  I try and meet your body through touch in as much of an embodied place as possible.  

I do not want to meet you with anxiety and fear, but with competence and care.

I want my intentional coherence to reverberate with your soma and psyche.  I can only hope that this will limbically resonate with you, allowing your body to find a more peaceful and balanced place as well.

Another island of coherence born.

In the end, know that I am here.  

Right here.

Never hesitate to reach out if you are wanting to come in for essential body work, for essential care.

Sunday, March 23, 2025

Spring. 🌱




Cherry Blossoms

Matsumura Goshun


Today marks Spring Equinox.

I so love the early Spring.  When going for a walk it is delightful to see flashes and flourishes of color juxtaposed against the dark and grey hues of a Winter slowly dissipating.

I try and make it out into nature at least once a day.  These changes of Spring can come and go so quickly.  Each time I take a walk, I am amazed by the changes taking place day by day.  Where just yesterday a tree was asleep under moss and frost, today it is dazzling for all the world to see with small white flowers glowing in the grey afternoon.

These changes can be subdued and subtle, but vibrant none the less.

When going through Rolfing®️, there are a dynamic array of changes taking place during and after each session.  Some of them obvious, others more subtle and nuanced.

It is important to pay attention to all of them.  Yet, I invite you to pay attention to those changes that are quieter, barely perceived but still brilliant and powerful.  Like cherry blossoms in the early Spring.

When we begin to bring our attention to the more subtle sensations in our bodies, not only are we tapping into the bodies ancient wisdom, but we are also tending to ourselves in a deeper way as well.  We are listening, trying to hear what our body is telling us with a whisper.  This is the antithesis of neglect and abandonment.  It is a compassionate intention to sense and feel all that is you.  Sometimes these quiet utterances can be deeply transformative and healing.

At the end of most sessions, I may ask you a deceivingly simple question, "What are you experiencing in your body right now."

Clients respond with a wide variety of responses, nothing, there is less pain, I feel further back on my heels, my hips feel more under me.

If we linger, we may begin to sense and feel the more subtle.

A low level tingling in your extremities, a wave of energy moving up and down your spine, feeling just a bit more heavy.

Perhaps faint emotions beckon you to pay closer attention as well.  A poignant sense of relief, an ancient grief from long ago, gratitude filling your heart with warmth, a low level vibration of rage kept at bay for so long.

This isn't always easy.  Words don't always do what you are experiencing justice.  Yet, if you can, try.  It doesn't have to make "sense."  If words just don't work, try expressing your new found awareness with movement or perhaps even a drawing.  Be creative.  As long as it is a truth that resonates deep within you.  When we sense the more sublime sensations, and give them meaning, they become more embodied.  You become more whole and another level of healing can take place.  

In healing, we aren't looking for perfection, we are looking for wholeness.  To embrace and recover all that has been, will be and is currently you.

Sometimes this can be found in the quietest corners and edges of your soma and psyche.  

Like a tree deep within the forest revealing bright Spring buds to the early morning light.


Thursday, December 26, 2024

Winter. ❄️

 


Black Door with Snow.

Georgia O'Keeffee

This is always an interesting time of the year.  It can be a time of strong churning dichotomies.

To begin with, Winter Solstice is the shortest day of the year.  

I find great comfort in this.  I love and relish the stillness and quiet that can be found on this day.  It beckons me to turn inward and listen to the deeper currents that gently ripple through my body and soul.  Dark and beautiful.  


There can also be a pull to huddle and cuddle with those you love.  Finding warmth, solace and humor in the company of those you feel absolutely safe with.  I find myself gravitating towards this limbic lusciousness more this year than years past.

The Holidays are upon us as well.

In the darkness of Winter, there is also a well spring of activity around the Holidays.  On one hand, as the weather dictates, we may want to hibernate and snuggle.  On the other hand, there is a strong pull, whether it be organic or forced, to celebrate with friends and family.

To help navigate these turbulent waters, as much as you can, pay close attention to what resonates with you moment by moment.  This may change minute by minute, hour by hour, day by day.  

One of the best ways to do this is by listening to your body.  If there is an activity that you feel drawn to for whatever reason, and your body begins to subtly tighten and your breath shortens, you may want to reconsider.  

If, on the other hand, such an activity makes your stomach gurgle and you sigh a bit, chances are you are on the right track.

In this very moment your body may want you to make a cup of tea and commune with your favorite tree. 

A few hours from now the idea of baking cookies for friends, family and neighbors for the Holidays may fill your body with excitement.  This baking fantasy then becomes a mess induced but delicious reality.  

Tomorrow or the next day you might feel the genuine desire to go, with an open heart and strong appetite, to a friend's annual Christmas party.

No matter the expectations, no matter the "shoulds" of it all, stay in close proximity to your deepest wants and needs.  Keep listening to your body.  That way, for this solstice and Holiday season, no matter what you do, you will find authentic joy, nourishment and love.

Monday, September 23, 2024

Fall. 🍁






 

Hello there.

I wanted to reach out and wish you a beautiful, peaceful and abundant Fall Equinox.

The time when it is equal day and night.  Fall is being ushered in, yet the last vestiges of Summer linger.

This is also a time to harvest.  To collect and bring home all of the fruits of our labor.

For years now I have been an avid gardener.  No matter what is going on in the world or in my own life, I return to my garden for solace and renewal.  

It is right about now that I begin to harvest all that I have grown.  Apples, blackberries, plums, hops and carrots to name just a few.  This year I will be canning and dehydrating quite a few of them.  It is all deeply satisfying.

When we harvest, we are collecting all of the abundance that we have manifested through our hard work.  This can be applied to most any endeavor.  It truly should be celebrated.  And shared.

There is a time of harvest in the Rolfing process as well.

Clients usually come to see me to become pain free and find balance.  To get to this place, it takes a labor of love, for the both of us.  It takes time, patience, and a commitment to healing.  We are in this together.

Over time, bit by bit, a client will begin to notice subtle and sometimes profound changes.  Each session building upon the previous one.  

In our first session, the seeds for our future harvest are planted. We tend to these seedlings of change with mindfulness and compassion.  In the early stages of our work, the new and positive changes still contend with long held symptoms.  The new can be felt and seen, but the old still has a hold on our soma and psyche.  There is new growth, yet it is tender and not quite robust.

In the interim, positive changes begin to take a stronger foot hold.  They find deeper roots and nourishment.  They begin to feel more solid and there is a sense of growing permanence.  

In the later stages of our work together, the harvest begins.  Pain that once seemed permanent is almost completely gone and forgotten.  A client is able to do more with their life again.  They are able to engage with life's activities that were once inaccessible due to discomfort and pain.  They feel as if they have more energy and a greater sense of peace.  The log jam has broken, and resolution to their long standing symptoms has been found.

It is here that we should pause and celebrate this harvest.  The harvest of peace, balance, and absence of pain.  

Finding this place of somatic resolution is deeply satisfying for both my client and myself.  I find great joy in helping you get to this place of somatic gathering and growth.  

On this day, I hope you enjoy the changing of the seasons . . . and your harvest.



Sunday, March 10, 2024

Cancellation Policy

 

\Cancellation Policy


Jim Allbaugh - Certified Rolfer®️

www.rolfingseattle.net


All cancellations require 24 hours notice or the full session fee will be charged.


If a client is 30 minutes late to their scheduled appointment, it is considered a cancellation.


If I am unable to give you 24 hours notice prior to re-scheduling your appointment, your next appointment will be free of charge.